Nick and Will’s Friendship
Not Without HopeThis flow traces the friendship’s growth from football companionship to chosen family and final mutual dependence.
increasing
Bearing strength in each event
decreasing
Football Acquaintances

Separate Sides of the Team
Different Roles
Nick and Will begin as teammates on opposite sides of the ball. Football culture keeps offense and defense socially separate.
Their friendship develops slowly through shared rides and meals.
Chosen Closeness
Betty’s pasta, camping, golf, softball, volleyball, and tailgating turn football contact into an intimate daily bond.
A Shared Household

The Adopted Son
Constant Companionship
Will has his own room and sofa at Nick’s home. Paula and Nick joke that he is their son, while Will becomes their dog walker and designated companion.
The friendship is woven into domestic routine rather than limited to sport.
The Invitation
Because they are inseparable, Nick calls Will when another passenger cancels. The casual invitation places his closest friend on the fatal trip.
Best Friends at Sea

Partnership in Survival
Mutual Dependence
Will retrieves life jackets and food while Nick holds, pulls, and repeatedly rescues him. Their physical cooperation extends both lives.
They exchange love and promise to stand beside each other at future weddings.
Irreplaceable Loss
Will dies while Nick holds him in the water. Survival therefore becomes inseparable from bereavement.
2006 at University of South Florida
2007 through February 27, 2009
February 28, 2009 through March 1, 2009